Expat Identity: Do You Really Want to be Treated Like a Thai? [S6.E45]

Greg and Ed discuss whether or not they prefer to be treated the same as Thai people are treated. On the one hand, after living in Thailand for twenty years, the guys feel like they’ve ‘earned’ the right to be accepted into Thai society and be treated with the same respect a Thai person would be. Ed recounts his frustration with meeting Thai people who do not ‘wai’ him even after learning that he is an ajarn at a Thai university. On the other hand, to be TRULY Thai, the boys would also be subject to all the responsibilities of Thai people. More on that later.

Greg checks in with two of his friends from work, Aum and Nonglak (thanks ladies!). In a short audio clip, they admit rarely if ever bowing to foreigners, but contend this is not intended as disrespect, but rather that farang are simply ‘outside’ of the Thai system and therefore may not understand the significance of various aspects of Thai culture. Ed confirms that his Thai friend also makes a similar point: when Thais interact with foreigners in Thailand, they simply do not consider them subject to the same rules as Thai people. In short, Thai cultural norms don’t apply to non-Thais, even inside of Thailand.

The boys in the end note that in all fairness, if they demanded to be treated exactly the same as Thais, they also would have to fulfill all the obligations that ‘senior’ Thai people have. Ed notes that at his university, the Thai Ajarns must attend various ceremonies throughout the year, that he (as a foreigner) is exempt from. And Greg paints the literally uncomfortable picture of kneeling for hours, hands clasped, sweat rolling down your face, at various Buddhist blessings and ceremonies. Both guys agree that living in the ‘in-between’ zone of being able to opt into but also out of Thai culture is actually a pretty advantageous place to be. 

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